The Suffolk wedding photographer for people who hate posing.

I hate having my photo taken, and as someone who is desperately introverted, I get how weird it can be to hire a stranger to follow you around for the day. My style is very much documentary, but I know that formal group photos are important too, and I'm really happy to include these as part of our plan for the day. My aim is to keep things as natural as possible however. I'm not into dreaming up cliché posed shots or spending hours meticulously adjusting postures and details. I love making relaxed, authentic feeling images which tell your story. Real moments, real emotion, real memories.

“Sometimes we’re tempted to get married again just to get to hang out with Joshua”

A bride and groom kiss in a field at sunset at their Suffolk wedding photographed by Joshua Anstey
Guests at Suffolk wedding venue Copdock Hall hold hands and talk in the courtyard at sunset
A bride at her wedding looks up in love at her groom, photographed by Suffolk wedding photographer Joshua Anstey

Why me?


If you can't think of anything worse than having a photographer follow you around all day but you need one because 'obviously', then you should hire me.

There's loads of wedding photographers in Suffolk so it's not easy to work out why you should pick one person over the other. You just want really good pictures, right? Preferably within budget. A lot of wedding photographers say that they're relaxed and candid, however unlike me, very very few work without posing people or setting shots up. If you're as introverted as me or you really hate having your photo taken, then there's a huge difference between being 'relaxed' and 'unposed'.


I do not pose people and as a general rule I don't set shots up either. This includes the couple's portraits you can see on this website (yep, even the ones that look a bit posed). The only exceptions are the traditional group photos - unfortunately there's no getting round this, you need to tell groups of people where to stand and what to do because they won't figure it out for themselves - and if I'm explicitly asked by a couple to set up a particular photograph (ie: confetti/smoke bombs).

At the very most, I've occasionally suggested holding hands or standing/walking in a particular place but that's pretty much it, no posing. I go out of my way to stay as far back as possible so that people can just be themselves without having to worry about how to stand, what to do or where to look. One of the ways I do this is by using longer range lenses so that I can photograph people from the other side of a space without them even realising. You might sacrifice a bit of drama and polished finesse, but I think it's well worth it when in return you get super relaxed photos of real life memories, not stuff your photographer made you do that didn't feel natural.

You don't throw a wedding to have a photoshoot so don't turn it into one, just enjoy your day. Hire me, and just concentrate on having the best day of your life.


Wedding photograph of a Suffolk bride dancing with her father with guests surrounding them

“We were very impressed by the photographs and the feedback about how unobtrusive you were. We have seen so many events where the wedding photographer can dominate.”


A bride and her bridesmaids walk to their wedding in the mist at Suffolk wedding venue Bruisyard Hall

The Full Story

£2300

I do my best work when I’m there all day, so that’s what I offer as standard (usually from 2–3 hours before the ceremony to a few hours after first dance).
It gives me the time and space to fully immerse myself in the story. No stopwatch. No awkward “extra hour” chats.

If you’re doing something smaller off-season (November–April) or your plans are a little more off-pisté (multi-day banger / elopement on a mountain etc.) do still get in touch and I can work something out on an hourly rate.

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What's included?

Pre-wedding photos

If you fancy it, we can meet up sometime before the big day - grab a drink, have a wander, and make a few relaxed photos together.
It’s totally optional, but it’s a great way to break the ice and means I’m not just some bloke with a camera turning up on your wedding day.
We’ll get a few nice shots of the two of you, and I’ll do a better job on the day because I’ll already know what makes you tick (and what makes you run for cover).

Previews within 24 hours

I get it, it's a long time to wait for you gallery to arrive, so I'll deliver you a handful of edited, full resolution highlights within 24 hours of me finishing so that you've got something to enjoy and post on social media straight away. Sometimes when the cover finish time hasn't been too late I've even been able to deliver these the same day.

An online shareable gallery for a whole year

View all your photos on a beautiful online gallery for the whole of your first year of marriage. Download directly from the gallery using a PIN which you can share with anyone you like. You can also order high quality prints from a world class photo lab, directly from your gallery and have them delivered straight to your door as soon as the very next day.

Unlimited consultations and access

Right from booking until delivery I'll be available for any advice, support, and general tips. I've been doing this for years so I've been to more than enough weddings to know what works and what doesn't. Email, text, call or FaceTime me, you name it I'm there for you.

Final planning session

When we get 2-4 weeks away from your date, we'll sit down for a catch-up where I'll work with you to make sure I'm up to speed with everything you've planned since you booked. We'll talk through everything that's important to you and work out a personalised plan to make sure you get exactly what you want, and get the most value for your money.

A free in-depth planning guide

I wasn't a wedding photographer when I got married and I remember how complicated it was so I've put together a huge, in depth guide full of tips, insights and advice. Yours for free when you book.

Travel and expenses anywhere in East Anglia

Full day bookings include travel & expenses anywhere within East Anglia.

“Joshua was our favourite supplier…
We really couldn't recommend him highly enough.”


FAQ

Will we have to pose?

Absolutely not. I cover your whole wedding day completely unposed, including portraits of you both. Yes really. None of the photos you see on this website are posed, even the ones that look like they are. I won't make you do anything weird and I won't make you whisper your favourite vegetable into your partners ear (not joking, that's genuinely a popular photography trick). I won't even try to "put you at ease" because with my approach, I won't need to. The one exception to the rule is if you'd like to do formal group shots. There's absolutely no way to that incognito, groups need organising - but that's your trigger to pull.

Where are you based and do you travel?

I'm based in Framlingham, Suffolk which is rather conveniently situated roughly between Ipswich & Norwich. This makes the whole of Norfolk & Suffolk my metaphorical oyster. I will very happily go adventuring pretty much anywhere however - my record is Santorini.

When & how will we get our photos?

I take a lot of photos. Like, a LOT. So it can take a little while to sort through everything and get them ready to send to you. I aim to have them with you by around four weeks, however depending on how busy a time your wedding falls in this could be a little later. All my couples get a link to an online gallery which you can share with your favourite humans so they can download copies or order prints. I can also supply a USB stick containing all the high resolution copies in a fancy wooden keepsake box for you to do with as you wish.

Do I need a second photographer?

Because I specialise in people who don't like a fuss, I tend to cover most weddings by myself. If you have a larger guest list though or you'd like to maximise your coverage I can provide a second photographer who will work in the same style as me. It costs more (obviously), but it means that we can cover both of you getting ready, guests arriving for the ceremony, a wider variety of angles during the ceremony, and generally better coverage of the reception. It's not easy to be in two places at once and there's a lot going during a wedding. It's very much your call, but if your guest list is on its way towards the 100 mark, it's well worth it.

Are you insured?

To the teeth. Wedding photography is my proper real life grown up job, not a cheeky side-hustle so I have all the necessary cover including public liability and professional indemnity. I also insure myself physically, for example by bringing spare cameras and lenses just in case one suddenly dies. Not sure I could live with having to whip out my iPhone to try and finish cover.

What happens if you're ill/you die?

Quite the optimist aren't you? I do take very good care of myself; I'm careful about what I eat and I'm generally in very good health, so thankfully it hasn't happened yet. Though I honestly have literal nightmares about this as I know friends in the industry do as well. There's no getting round the fact however that some scenarios in life are totally unavoidable and unpredictable. Any wedding photographer you choose carries this risk and we pretty much all have the same answer; I do know a number of other wedding photographers who I would be able to contact and ask to stand in for me. If however, heaven forbid, it was absolutely impossible to arrange a replacement (and for the record no-one can guarantee this unless they're actively paying multiple photographers to stay free on your date which would be stupendously expensive), you would get a full refund and a free photoshoot in your fancy clothes so that you do still have some wedding photos to cherish.

How many pictures will we get?

This is difficult to answer because it's really dependant on what happens during the day and how long I spend with you. I don't have any set rules other than 'as many as is needed to tell your story'. It typically ranges from 300 - 600 if that's helpful though. There are wedding photographers out there who often deliver 1000+, but I'd rather send you 400 outstanding photos which I've poured over for than 1000 mediocre ones.

Can I just book you for a few hours?

Absolutely, however I usually only accept full day bookings between May & October. Because dates in that season are so highly sought after, I generally book up all my availability and if I take, for example, a 2hr wedding on a very popular summer weekend then that means I’m not available to book a 10-12 hour wedding which is what I usually fill the diary with.

If you're doing something smaller off-season (or occasionally mid-week if I'm not too busy) then do still get in touch and I'll see if I can make it work.

“We loved having Joshua. He didn't intrude or create any awkwardness and was really good at putting everybody's mind at ease.”


A female guest at a Suffolk church wedding smiles as she talks to a male guest over the pews.

Fancy a chat?

I like to meet every prospective couple before they make a booking. Firstly it's just a bit more friendly, secondly I find it's much easier to discuss your plans properly and offer you options that suit you perfectly. I don't charge for this, I'll come to you, and there's absolutely no obligation to book afterwards.

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Aerial view of Suffolk Wedding venue Lanwades Hall surrounded by lush green gardens and wooded countryside on a cloudy day.
An intimate moment between a same-sex couple standing in front a cathedral with yellow flowers in foreground.
Black and white image of children playing at a suffolk wedding whilst adult guests socialise in the background.
Wedding couple dances in front of ivy-covered Suffolk mansion Woodhall Manor.
A black and white image captures a candid moment after a wedding ceremony where guests point at the groom.
Wedding guests mingle in a garden courtyard outside Lanwades Hall in Suffolk during an evening reception.
A young woman joyfully embraces a male wedding guest from behind who is entirely focussed on eating cake.
A person holding a delicate blue hydrangea bloom while inserting a teddy into a tan suit jacket.
Tilt shift image of the entrance to Seckford Hall in Suffolk on sunny day.
Couple walks hand in hand through tall grass at sunset in a dreamy outdoor suffolk wedding.
Wedding guests in suits and sunglasses gather outdoors on a cloudy day, captured in black and white photography.
Close-up of guests hands and drinks at a Suffolk wedding reception.
Couple celebrates their wedding day outside historic building entrance with guests showering them in confetti and petals.
Group of wedding guests laugh and celebrate together on a sunny outdoor patio.
Someone helps fasten the back of an ornate white lace wedding dress with delicate floral details and off-shoulder design.
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