An Intimate Destination Wedding in Santorini with Parasols, Sunset Views, and a Mild Sunburn Catastrophe
Some couples want a huge wedding - hundreds of guests, a band, fireworks, and a seating plan that resembles the London Underground map. Alex and Bella went the other way.
They wanted something small, intimate, and a bit out of the ordinary. Just their closest people somewhere meaningful to them both. That place turned out to be Santorini, which they’d visited together several times before and already loved. So they did the obvious thing and flew everyone out to Greece for a destination wedding overlooking one of the most ridiculous views you could possibly ask for.
Whenever I photograph a destination wedding, I always travel out early. Not because it’s glamorous, but because the scope for things to go wrong triples, and the margin to recover from those issues is practically nil. In the weeks leading up to the trip I had multiple vivid nightmares about turning up at the airport without my passport. Or arriving in Santorini and discovering I’d somehow forgotten every camera I own. One particularly stressful dream involved me sprinting around the airport duty-free trying to buy a replacement camera before the ceremony started. So yes - I arrived a couple of days early.
This did allow for a little exploring around Santorini, which was lovely… until I managed to give myself the worst sunburn of my entire life. I genuinely thought I’d applied sun cream responsibly, but what I actually did was apply it perfectly everywhere except for the backs of my lower legs where I seeming used absolutely none. When I got back to my hotel I realised the damage - complete with visible finger-shaped streaks where I’d clearly not spread the sun cream properly. The result was spectacularly painful. At one point during that night I stood up to go to the bathroom and immediately collapsed into a heap on the floor quietly whimpering because my legs felt like they might explode. Thankfully the pouch of medicines I'd craftily packed "just in case" saved the day.
Anyway, you came here to read about a wedding, not me getting sunburnt. Look at this sexy view...
Bella and Alex got ready separately on the morning of the wedding. Because of the geography and parking situation, covering both wasn’t really possible by myself. Alex, like most grooms wasn't overly fussed about getting his bit covered anyway, so I spent the morning with Bella and her family at a beautiful complex they'd rented (Ducato Wine Village in Megalachori).
Bella did her own hair and makeup, with a little help from Betty at Image Salon in Ipswich for lash extensions and brows, and EM Skin & Beauty Clinic for her nails before travelling out.
She worse a ridiculously elegant dress by Wendy Makin, purchased from Lavender & Jude, paired with shoes from Minuit Sur Terre.
Once Alex was ready, he popped by for a first look, which you don’t actually see that often at British weddings as it’s more of an American tradition, but when it happens it’s always very sweet.
They had a little extra time before they had to leave, so they practised their first dance together for a few minutes while I watched from a balcony having snuck off to give them some space.
From Bella’s accommodation it was a short walk around the corner to the venue. Although in 35-degree heat, while carrying a camera bag full of gear, even a short walk becomes what can only be described as 'an experience'. I arrived somewhat more moist than when I left, but gratefully, not unsociably so.
The venue itself (El Viento, Megalachori) was absolutely stunning - an old windmill overlooking the caldera with hands-down, the most dramatic ceremony views I’ve ever photographed. If you’re planning a Santorini destination wedding, this was an excellent choice.
The bay below is actually the crater from a huge volcanic eruption thousands of years ago, so the entire ceremony backdrop was this vast, sweeping curve of sea, cliffs and islands with boats passing slowly through the middle of it.
Because of the fairly aggressive sun, Alex & Bella thoughtfully provided little paper parasols for the guests. Regrettably, not something I was able to carry around in addition to my cameras, so my increasingly sizeable bald spot took the brunt of the sun's fury. Several of the guests almost immediately managed to turn their parasols inside out and had to be rescued by venue staff, which I found quietly entertaining.
The ceremony began with a floral entrance courtesy of one of Alex’s groomsmen and Alex’s sister, flamboyantly producing petals from their pockets and scattering them everywhere whilst dancing their way down the aisle.
The ceremony itself was led beautifully by Kosta Savva, with flowers by Bloom de Fleur, Santorini framing the ceremony space.
Alex and Bella included a sand pouring - two different coloured sands combined together into one jar as a symbol of their lives coming together - which was a first for me although I know it's becoming more popular back home and something that even the Suffolk Registry Service now offers as an add-on.
Then came confetti up the aisle on exit, which often feels far more natural than lining everyone up outside the venue. As a documentary wedding photographer, I’ve occasionally noticed slightly awkward choreography of the couple slipping back inside after having exited the ceremony space, so they can then re-emerge for the confetti moment. It can feel a little contrived, so this was a nice touch and simplified things a lot.
The drinks reception that followed was lovely, although with the sun still fairly enthusiastic most people could be found happily congregating in the patches of shade scattered around the venue, drinks in hand and parasols doing their best.
Dinner was held on a long banquet table on the terrace below the ceremony space overlooking the caldera. I’m not exaggerating when I say the setting was absolutely ridiculous. Pictures do not do quite convey the atmosphere.
As the sun began to set the light softened, the air cooled slightly, and the whole place actually glowed. Alex & Bella nipped down ahead of everyone to get a peek at the setup, then slipped off for a few minutes to themselves while everyone took their seats.
Catering was from PetranArt Catering Company, who produced an incredible Greek feast, plus some cupcakes and a cookie tower for later on. The wedding favours were tiny velvet pouches containing little pieces of jewellery, cufflinks, and tie clips - a lovely personal touch for the guests.
During dinner I briefly ran off around the hillside to grab a wide photograph of the entire venue. It seemed like a brilliant idea at the time but unfortunately by the time I got back, my plate had been cleared away, so that’s on me. I maintain it was worth it though and I was force-fed more than my fair share of cake and cookies later on when a few people realised what had happened.
The speeches were brilliant - funny, heartfelt, and occasionally deeply emotional.. Alex’s dad also surprised everyone by performing an impressively powerful solo, which was genuinely beautiful and resulted in yet more tears around the table. By this point the sun had fully started to set and the light was absolutely spectacular.
Before the evening celebrations began, Alex and Bella slipped back up to the ceremony space for a few quiet minutes together and I grabbed a few photos of just the two of them. As usual for me: no posing - just them spending time together while the last of the Santorini daylight faded over the sea. I got what I needed without directing them and just quietly followed them around.
Meanwhile, the terrace below was being readied for the evening party with fairy lights provided by Multimedia Market E.E.. Music for the evening came from the same team, and the party continued well into the night.
This was easily one of my favourite weddings of the year. Distinctive, emotional, full of personality, and set in hands-down the most beautiful place I’ve ever photographed a wedding.
Most importantly though, Alex and Bella - along with their friends and family - were truly excellent examples of humanity. I often think about how fortunate I am with the couples who choose me; they’re usually fairly like-minded people from similar walks of life, which means I tend to fit right in without really trying.
Occasionally though, as with this wedding, people go out of their way to make me feel genuinely welcomed and part of the day rather than just staff they get along with.
I was thousands of miles away from my wife and children, yet here I was with a group of people - several of whom actually live within walking distance of me back home - and everyone, right down to the guests, made a point of really looking after me.
I don't consider myself a destination wedding photographer (although I do travel), but I am very keen to photograph more destination weddings in the future. It certainly wasn’t without its stresses and complications, but it was far more rewarding and magical than I’d expected, and I can’t wait for the next foreign adventure.
Preferably with slightly better sun-cream application next time. I definitely learned that lesson.
Vendors
Venue: El Viento, Megalochori, Santorini
Accommodation: Ducato Wine Village, Megalachori
Ceremony Officiant: Kosta Savva – Destination Wedding Celebrant
Flowers: Bloom de Fleur Santorini
Catering & Cake: PetranArt Catering Company
Music & Lighting; Multimedia Market E.E., Karterados, Santorini
Dress Designer: Wendy Makin
Bridal Boutique: Lavender & Jude, Southwold
Shoes: Minuit Sur Terre
Hair & Makeup: DIY
Pre-Wedding Beauty: Image Salon, Ipswich – Lashes & Brows, EM Skin & Beauty Clinic – Nails
Content Creator: Seen Social Weddings
Suits: SuitSupply, Hugo Boss, Moss Bros